Birmingham Lie Detector Test advice
We received a query this week from a lady in a relationship with a married man. Our polygraph examiner responded to it below.
Q: Can your Birmingham lie detector test find if my lover is telling me the truth?
Please don’t judge me but I am having an affair with a married man and have been for over five years now. I met him at work, and he told me that he and his wife lead different lives only staying together for the sake of the children.
As the children have left home now I recently asked him if we could spend Christmas together, he refused saying the kids were coming back for Christmas Day which I understand. I had hoped maybe he would spend a few days with me over the Christmas period. I am starting to feel he has been stringing me along all these years telling me he would leave his wife when the time was right.
I am starting to feel he is hiding something from me and has no intention of ever leaving his wife but I do know that he loves me, my friends have suggested I ask him to take a lie detector test so we can find out more about his intentions towards me and our relationship, I cant carry on for much longer like this.
Response from Jason Hubble APA, BPA, UKPA, NPA Birmingham Polygraph Examiner
As a professional qualified APA polygraph examiner and the Secretary of the UK Polygraph Association we never judge people or situations, over the years we have helped people in many situations find clarity and closure in one way or another, we would never judge you.
Would a lie detector test help you in this situation, I’m afraid the straight answer is no its wouldn’t as we can’t test on emotion or intent. What’s love? No one really knows, and for intent this can change on a daily basis when someone changes their mind. When we run a lie detector test in Birmingham or anywhere else in the country we stick to testing on facts for accuracy. I would suggest you look at this a different way and ask him to take a lie detector test in Birmingham on the relationship he has with his wife, for instance when did they last have sexual intercourse, are they still having a sexual relationship as he states they are leading separate lives. These answers may help you move on in one way or another.
I would suspect that he would never agree to taking a lie detector test in Birmingham and you may get the answers without needing us or better yet a confession which often happens when a test is booked. Anyone in a similar situation please call us on 0207 859 4960 and discuss your case with a qualified examiner, we are not an agency, you talk directly with the examiner. Our prices per test start at £399 all inc at our own offices, we cover the UK and can run a test in the comfort of your home or even hire an office in a town close to you. Or you can book a test online here.